Friday, October 20, 2006
Turn on your TV. What do you see? Chance's are if it's on a news channel, you'll probably be hearing something about Sara Evans and Craig. The continuing saga, of their nasty divorce! Who is lying? Who is telling the truth? Who really care's? A week ago today I found out that Sara was leaving Dancing with the Star's. Also, found out that she was getting a divorce. I was shocked and horrified by the claim that she made. It felt like a dream. That it was not really happening. I actually prayed that it was all just a rumor gone horribly wrong. However, unfortunately, I was wrong. Biased as I might have been, I automatically believed Sara. You could almost believe she was the perfect woman in the world. How could SHE lie? Not saying that I do not believe her. However, even though I know that the possibility of passing a lie detector test, and still be lying is very possible. Hell, that is why many courthouses do not use it as evidence. I begin to become more, and more "no commented", "no opinion" to it. Chance's are Sara could be lying, just as much as Craig and Alison could be lying.
- Why didn’t she have her papers sealed?
- What if, she is lying?
- What if, Craig is lying?
- If so, why didn't she leave earlier?
- What about the nanny?
Why didn't she have them sealed? Well, there could many different reasons. Maybe she wanted to do, as so many "know-it-all" people seem to think she did it. Maybe she did it as a publicity stun. That could be plausible. Then again, maybe she did not think about it. Maybe she did not think people would make such a big deal about it. Maybe she did not realize how much her popularity had grown since being on DWTS. Let us be honest, if this happened 6 months ago. When she was nothing, but a "female-country-singer!" She was not anything more, or less. Do you honestly think this would be the so-called "scandal of the year"? I do not believe so. Most people would have been like "Oh, wow. That's shocking...moving on!" In addition, maybe she did not have them sealed because everything is true, and she wanted the world to see what Craig really was. That he was not the “family values” type of person. In the end, nobody know's but her. So, stop speculating.
Maybe, she is lying. Why would she want to? Maybe she did go around "Cheatin'". Maybe she has been faithful to Craig. Maybe she is telling the truth. Craig may have been abusive towards her. (Which everyone keeps overlooking, and running straight to the terrifying skinny former nanny, Alison Clinton Lee) Maybe Craig did cheat. Maybe Craig was watching porn when Avery walked in. Maybe everything she is saying is true. However, like everything, there is always that chance it is not.
What if, Craig is lying! See, I tend to lean more towards that. Not because I am a huge Sara fan. I tend to lean more towards that because he has done and said thing's that seem to make him appear more guiltier. For example, when he took 27somethingish thousand dollars from their bank account! It scream's "I'm guilty, and I'm trying to screw her!" Then the whole "I'm not bringing this to the media. I will defend myself in court." However, today the papers hit the Internet that he filed against Sara. If he were truly going to keep this out of the media, he would have sealed the paper's he filed. He is doing just as much damage to his. Just as Sara’s have done. In addition, I find it almost ha-ha funny that everything Sara is accusing him of, is what he's accusing her of. If everything Sara say's is true, why on God's green earth would he admit to it? Chance's are more-than-likely he would not. He his is "political" (haha) career to protect. Not that Republican's have really had one here lately, however that's another story for another day. Then again, there is always that chance he's telling the truth.
Why didn't she leave earlier? If everything is true about what she has said, then there could be many, many, many reason's why. Maybe she did try to stick-it out and try to fix-it. Maybe she was fearful to leave, for the sake of her kids. Who really know's. Only Sara truly know's.
What about the nanny? Yeah, what about the nanny? I see her face all over my tv, and I can't help put question her true sincerity. Maybe I should not, but she keep's on saying "I love Sara. I love those kids. I adore them." Then why are you all over the news, taking money for interviews? Don't YOU realize that your hurting those kids just as much as Sara and Craig's paper's are? I would think that if she really cared as much as she say's she does, she would stay out of the media. Guilty or not!
I have tried hard not to speculate, or paint either one of them into a corner that they may not belong in. That is really hard to do when you have one person saying one thing, and another saying another thing. Their lives should be, kept private. Their affairs (not referring to sexual affair's) should be, kept private. Everything of their divorce should be, kept private. If it were some random, non-famous person, it would not be everywhere. However, it has not been. For whatever reason, it does not really matter now. What really matter's is, and I keep coming back to this, the kid's. If Avery saw, what Sara claim's he did, and it was as she claims. God bless that child. Not only could his innocence be shattered, but him, Olivia, and Audrey could lose their father. If he is a cheating, porn-o, abusive guy. Then fine, but if not, then the kid's are being punished when they should not be.
Mark my words! If one day it all comes out that Sara lied about everything, I will have no respect for her. Not as an artist, nor a human being. Sounds harsh, however if you would intentionally put your children through that without any real cause -- damn you! That is cruel and inhuman not only to the kid's, but to Craig, his family, Mrs. Lee, and Sara's family. However, if Craig really is the liar in this, then he deserves it. That may sound harsh also, but if he did do, what Sara say's he did -- then more power to her. Step-up, and protect those kid's. After all, she could be only one that can protect them – however he maybe the only one. Only time can tell. Until then, to everyone who claims to know rather not who is lying, and who is not. Shut your mouth, and get a hobby.
Nikki [
6:39 PM ]

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